Don't be afraid! Online flirting is fun, especially if you know the rules!
- Be brave and take the first step! You don't have to wait long to be chatted up in the Internet.
- Insert a good and flattering picture of yourself! Pictures say more than a 1,000 words and increase your chances of being contacted by more than 8x!
- Don't insert any pictures with your Ex! These are taboo! Also no pictures of your pets, car or favorite comic figure!
- For women: No bikini photos - unless you like peeping Toms!
- Be active! Login regularly, fill out your entry completely, have yourself activated as a "Certified Member" and subscribe to a Premium Membership. Your entry will then appear at the top of the search results list and other members will be able to find you easier!
- Enter a humorous and informative text. The better you describe yourself and your desired partner, the easier it is for the
"right partner" to find you.
- Make the person searching for a partner curious to learn more about you! Tell something about yourself! You are anonymous here!
- Be positive! Describe your strengths and don't explain your self-doubts!
- Very short texts such as "Write to me, I'll write back!" receive only very few replies. But don't write too much!
- Answer the optional questions (favorite type of cooking, favorite music etc.). They reveal a lot about your living style and interests.
- Check your entry for spelling mistakes.
- Don't take dumb replies or rejections personally! Those are just replies from "nobodies". There are enough interesting people out there!
- Don't get on "private terms" too quickly;! Take your time!
- Don't enter your private Email in your profile! Never! If you do, someone can really get on your nerves privately. The same applies for telephone numbers, etc. - remain anonymous! If you really become serious about someone, then you can ask for proof of his/her trustworthiness (Email address,
telephone number etc.)!
- And finally: Select a username, which fits your personality! Names like "gray mouse", "ugly duckling" or "sm now" don't sound very interesting, do they?
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