Revenge Your Ex

Each day hundreds of men and women seek revenge on their ex-mates for a
variety of reasons, usually because they got dumped or where cheated on.
Revenge comes in many ways. It typically starts by using social media to
vent, and then escalates from there. Now sites like "Get Revenge On Your Ex"
for a fee will help you get pay back or revenge.

So what is the best way to get revenge besides slashing her tires, posting
nude photos of her and so on.

The best way according to the web site Right Choices 101 is to live your
life well. This is true no matter who you are seeking revenge on. Coworkers,
past bosses, bad friends or ex-lovers. Put your energy into succeeding and
enjoying your life, not wasting your time, energy and resources on revenge
that can end up costing you much more. Plus, when you seek revenge, you send
them a massage that you have not gotten over the relationship. It's much
better to show you are indifferent and don't care.

According to Kenneth Agee of A Foreign Affair, a service that specializes in
helping men find young beautiful foreign women, "The best revenge is to date
or marry a women 10 years younger than your ex. This will piss her off to no
end. No woman ever wants to be replaced with a younger, more attractive
woman. Just like a man never likes to get replaced by a guy who is wealthier
or more successful.

I will never forget one of my first clients we took to Saint Petersburg,
Russia." says Agee, "The client told me that two days on our tour was better
than two years of therapy. Having hundreds of attractive women fighting over
you gets your ex out of your mind pretty quick.

I personally went through break up when my ex ran off with another man. But
a short time later, I met a new lady who was ten times better. I ran into
that man who stole my ex and I gave him a big thanks. In fact, I could not
thank him enough. He was stuck with an older nagging women, while I was now
with a young, beautiful, caring women. Plus, my ex had gained about 100
pounds. I don't look at that fellow as any kind of enemy but as the person
who saved me from my ex and years of suffering." This is the best a revenge
when you win without lowering yourself.

Other sites like "Get Over Her Now" give practical advice and tips for
getting over a past relationship.

Top Tips from Get Over Her Now:

Start making platonic relationships with as many women as possible, old,
young, skinny, fat, cute or ugly. This greatly helps you get back in the
game of socializing with the opposite sex. And it opens up lots
opportunities to meet their cute attractive friends in a more relaxed
environment. This also helps you build your game and confidence.

Improve yourself, start working out, get up early every day and exercise.

Buy new clothes. Dressing better makes you feel better and improves your
confidence.

Focus on work and getting a promotion or raise. Don't let a break up effect
your work negatively. Put that extra effort into work and it will pay off
with a better position and more money. This will also build your confidence
and help attract better quality women.

Any time you are depressed, improving yourself helps greatly. When you feel
depressed, don't sit and watch TV and then sleep-in late. Get out and do
something that will make you feel like you've accomplished something. Take a
class, go hiking, fix something you've been putting off.

Don't start drinking. Drinking will always have a negative impact on your
life. Don't drink while depressed or when you are trying to get over some
one. After all, drinking is for celebrating. So if you are not celebrating
something, don't drink. A quality women is not going to be attracted to
someone who drinks a lot or has a drinking problem.

Don't sleep in; sleeping late increases depression. Get up as early as you
can and go for a walk, take a hike, or go to the Gym. Research shows getting
up early and exercising can eliminate depression. You will have no game be
depressed.

Don't binge eat. If you start gaining weight, you will feel less self-worth
and lose your confidence. Confidence is a quality that women are extremely
attracted to.

Conclusion, the best revenge is when you improve your life so well that she
realizes she made a big mistake. And satisfaction comes when you meet
someone so much better, you are glad the ex is gone. After all, if you are
seeking revenge, how great could she really have been in the first place!
I read your post with interest 1stworld, and all what you said is very true. It is so easy to want to seek revenge on someone who has hurt you through no fault of your own. I was cheated on and took the first steps you mentioned, the drinking, the depression, the lack of self worth and confidence, I did reek a little revenge on him : ( for some BIZZARE reason when selling our home he wanted ' OUR' bed which I knew he was putting in to storage until he found a new place, SURE .. I gave it him but not before opening up a corner of the mattress and sewing some sardines in to it, if another woman wanted to sleep in my bed then it sure was not going to smell of sweet roses !! .. but anyway I turned it round very quickly, I got a new job, learnt to drive, found my confidence, stopped the drinking, I had something to get up for everyday and be happy, needless to say the greatest feeling was when he came grovelling back for me ,but I had met a lovely man ... so I agree, turn it in to positive energy and move on with your life, after all who wants to be with someone afterwards who shows nor respect to have cheated on you in the first place, the trust has gone, so pick yourself up, dust yourself down and don't waste energy on seeking revenge as it only takes you further down.... Jane
What a great topic and such good advice.  Thank you.

Jane you are so funny.  I laughed right out loud when I read about the sardines.  I will keep that in mind in case I ever feel the need to do it.  I will keep a needle and thread on hand, LOL LOL......  :lol:

You are one great poster jane , my dear friend.  Love you, Ami x 
Oh l have lain there in the middle of the night after l have been hurt as in lied too cheated on we all have a story or two and l have thought about how l can release the pain and anger felt, wanting to unleash it on him/them but then morning comes and l realise that my pride, my dignity, my self respect is worth more then revenge.
Plus what purpose does it serve apart from making you look like the crazy ex nah not happening nor giving anyone who has hurt me house room in my thoughts.

The advice is good but when your in that pain filled haze of rejection hurt and anger its not always easy to see what it the right thing to do, but hopefully we have friends and family to help guide us through it all.
I did respond to this post and it was removed. Maybe it was my wording :roll: Thing is people...no sane..caring, responsible, loving, person would seek the path of revenge. I would never want to be dated or befriended by somebody (male or female)who's intent from the start was to use me as a tool for revenge. And to put it in print, give guidelines, as in a "how to do" manual...leaves me with more questions than answers. No care is given, to the person who has been used in this manner. No thought, zip, nadda.
I count the lady or Gentleman who realizes at the start the purpose of this game, and walks, very lucky indeed.
Laurie.
Vengeance is for the lord. Forgive but don't forget.