In my life I have dated men that could buy a small nation, or only a cup of coffee. I have dated very good looking men(according to the standards) and just striking men, with beautiful eyes and strong hands. I have dated men that most women have passed by and in doing have had the most wonderful time. I have never looked at money or looks. What I do look for is strength of character, honesty, clearness of thought and conviction, strong hands, an arm to hold me, a hand to grasp, and a shoulder to lean on.
Then I look into a face, that can be bold, striking or not, and search for understanding and kindness. Once I see what I am looking for, then I look truly at his face and form. But by that time, girls, it doesn't matter because no looks or money can buy what I seek, therefore face and form are secondary. I have been taken to the Seattle Space Needle for a 200.00 meal on a date and have gone out for a cup of coffee on another. I truly enjoyed that cup of coffee. I accept the limitations of age, but damn I refuse to stop looking for that wicked twinkle in the eye, that smile, and that shoulder I can be tucked into. If you are going to enter the race ladies, just start with a smile. Men, begin with a twinkle in the eye. The rest can be worked out as time goes by.