If he's that young, I would question his motives. They say age is only a number but that's only good between certain ages. A 20-year-old woman might be attracted to a 30-year-old man and vice versa, but when she's 60 and he's 70 depending on his health it could be huge. My brother is eight years older than his wife (he's 63) and she's now into biking and marathons and he has a bad knee and prefers not to do the big road races so now she's questioning the marriage. She's meeting new and younger people and Ian's starting to look not so young.
Some will say that can happen at any age, but let's face it, it increases with age (unless one of you has a nice amount of $$ stashed away). And some will also say that in any marriage you can develop different interests as well, but done properly, that should be a good thing.
I question anybodymore than 5 years younger as to their reasons for wanting to meet me the same way I question somebody from more than 100 miles away. Seriously, there's NOBODY in your area or close to it that you can meet??
As to the girlfriend hoarder, he wasn't very bright to start with and I convinced him, and rightly so, that he'd never be able to move ahead until he ditched his past -- then I ditched him
He was SUCH a moron.