Polarqueen wrote: Black Widow, when you get a group of women all in the same place, you can only expect their will be many differences. As you have taken a break, I too have left this site three times. I understand how you feel. Came back this time only to find the exact thing I left. I tried to get people to come back by messaging them, many came. But to no avail, it started out good, and faded away to emptiness in a short time. I also do not like some people on here and can not stand to be in the chat room with them. Although I try to smile and eat the crap that comes out of them, I am already burnt out again on this site. What is really boring, to leave this site and come back to people who are exactly the same, there is no growth whatsoever in their lives. Nothing new, nothing loss or gained. If I have heard it once, I have heard it 20 times, the same sad or whinning story. There is nothing positive coming out of most people. Who needs that? Probably Black Widow, I am one of the people you do not like, and thats okay.But tell the people you do not like them and free your mind and soul. Do not keep it in, it will just posion you..Many, Many people like and respect you, including me. I am thinking of leaving for the fouth time. I see no point to be in chat. Best wishes to you BW
I totally agree with you, but not everyone is going to like everyone, often when I enter chat, I notice some stuff being said, what I learn is to take it with a grain of salt, or like water run off the back of a duck. Yes some things being said can be hurtful, but we have to learn to build up a thick skin and move on, hang out with those you like, I tried to be friends with everyone but it don't always work, but that is life, same in your home town, there will be people you like and dislike as them with you. It life!