Dating

Many mature adults have been discovering the joys of online dating, making it a popular option for finding companionship. While stepping into this world can feel overwhelming, there are effective ways to enhance your dating profile and attract like-minded individuals. Here’s how to make your profile stand out.  Use Recent Photos When choosing photos for your profile, select recent images that truly represent who you are today. Opt for pictures that capture you enjoying life, whether at family events or pursuing hobbies. A genuine smile can significantly boost your pro... more ...

The most beautiful relationships often develop from friendships. Initially, you may be looking for just a good conversation partner with whom you can share your joys and worries. The foundation of such deep, sincere relationships is trust and mutual attention, which can develop over time into a closer bond or even love. On our site, you have the opportunity to meet people in similar life situations who are also longing for a true friend who may later become the love of their life.  If any of the following statements apply to you, you are in the right place: You feel lonely and y... more ...

Even though many people still cling to "traditional values" and tend to stigmatize those who live their relationships according to their own ideas, social mores are nevertheless evolving towards a freer sexuality. Separated, widowed, or single seniors increasingly want to have new life experiences. Since there's no age at which one should "let oneself go," why not get intimate on the first date? Let's delve deeper into this topic. Sexuality Is Important -  Even In Later Years It's a misconception to believe that after the age of 50, desire an... more ...

"To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance." said Oscar Wilde. While some individuals boast an oversized ego, others struggle immensely to accept themselves as they are. It's easier for them to love their children, their partners, their families, and their friends. These individuals tend to highlight their own flaws and imperfections rather than recognizing their own worth. Can one learn to love oneself? How can one succeed in self-acceptance? Must one love oneself to be loved in return? These are just a few questions we'll attempt to address in this new article.... more ...

Erotic texts have existed since ancient times. Whether they come from Ancient Greece, with early representatives like Alcman or Sappho, Ancient Rome with Catullus or Ovid, or from the East, featuring central works such as "One Thousand and One Nights" or the "Kamasutra"... However, this literary genre, aimed at arousing the reader's sexual desire by exploring the pleasures of love, has been experiencing growing success especially among women for the past decade. How can we explain this? Has the readership also evolved? What do these texts bring to us? Let's take a c... more ...

While most people cannot imagine life as a couple unless they live under the same roof others feel the need to withdraw into their "nest" and thus maintain a form of independence. Living Apart Together long considered unthinkable in our societies, has become a growing phenomenon.Recent studies indicate that individuals in living apart together (LAT) arrangements make up approximately 10% of the adult population in North America and Western Europe. Is there a "typical" profile of a person particularly inclined to this type of relationship? What advantages and disadvantages d... more ...

In the fascinating world of interpersonal relationships, the power of attraction plays a decisive role.Does the person who meets our expectations and desires truly exist? What guides us in choosing a partner? Why do we fall in love with a specific person? The subtle art of partner selection often encompasses conscious and unconscious aspects that influence our decisions. Let's take a closer look.  What are we naturally attracted to? Our emotions and subconscious mind play a crucial role, including experiences from childhood. Frequently, prescribed patterns and childhood expe... more ...

As we age, more and more of us find love after 50. But why does love feel different at this stage of life?Members of the older age group bring new perspectives and life experiences that impact every aspect of our lives, including the questions of love and relationships. They know exactly what they want, or don't want, in a new relationship.What characterizes our attitude towards love at this stage of life?  New Self-awareness and Self-confidence The years after 50 can bring new opportunities for self-awareness and self-confidence. Life experiences and self-awareness that com... more ...

Aha, choosing a partner... one of the most exciting and mysterious aspects of human life. We've all chosen a partner at some point or are currently seeking someone who aligns with our ideals and desires. But what guides us in mate selection? Why do we fall in love with a particular person?Partner selection often involves conscious and unconscious factors that influence whom we choose as our life companion.Psychological research reveals gender differences in mate selection criteria. For instance, men tend to prioritize external appearance, while women prefer a partner's caregiving abili... more ...

"We asked our relationship expert, psychotherapist Dr. Stefan Woinoff. The comprehensive interview in 5 parts.Here, we ask Dr. Woinoff new questions each week about topics related to dating, love, and relationships and share his answers and valuable tips for those seeking a new partner.  50plus-Club: Dr. Woinoff, why do many women over 50 find it hard to find a partner? Most women over 50 have a very clear idea of what they want in a partner, and their list of criteria can be quite extensive, which can sometimes impact their success rates. They are demanding when it comes t... more ...