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In the fascinating world of interpersonal relationships, the power of attraction plays a decisive role.Does the person who meets our expectations and desires truly exist? What guides us in choosing a partner? Why do we fall in love with a specific person? The subtle art of partner selection often encompasses conscious and unconscious aspects that influence our decisions. Let's take a closer look.  What are we naturally attracted to? Our emotions and subconscious mind play a crucial role, including experiences from childhood. Frequently, prescribed patterns and childhood expe... more ...

Are you spending Christmas alone this year? Whether it's by choice or circumstance, it's important to try and ease loneliness and focus on the positives.It is also time to destigmatize loneliness. Depending on its severity, loneliness can have psychological effects on those affected, such as leading to depression. However, loneliness remains mostly a taboo in our society, regardless of age. But just talking about the stigma of loneliness can contribute to feeling better and realizing that you are not alone.We all have the opportunity to reduce loneliness, whether through a different pe... more ...

As we age, more and more of us find love after 50. But why does love feel different at this stage of life?Members of the older age group bring new perspectives and life experiences that impact every aspect of our lives, including the questions of love and relationships. They know exactly what they want, or don't want, in a new relationship.What characterizes our attitude towards love at this stage of life?  New Self-awareness and Self-confidence The years after 50 can bring new opportunities for self-awareness and self-confidence. Life experiences and self-awareness that com... more ...

Aha, choosing a partner... one of the most exciting and mysterious aspects of human life. We've all chosen a partner at some point or are currently seeking someone who aligns with our ideals and desires. But what guides us in mate selection? Why do we fall in love with a particular person?Partner selection often involves conscious and unconscious factors that influence whom we choose as our life companion.Psychological research reveals gender differences in mate selection criteria. For instance, men tend to prioritize external appearance, while women prefer a partner's caregiving abili... more ...

"We asked our relationship expert, psychotherapist Dr. Stefan Woinoff. The comprehensive interview in 5 parts.Here, we ask Dr. Woinoff new questions each week about topics related to dating, love, and relationships and share his answers and valuable tips for those seeking a new partner.  50plus-Club: Dr. Woinoff, why do many women over 50 find it hard to find a partner? Most women over 50 have a very clear idea of what they want in a partner, and their list of criteria can be quite extensive, which can sometimes impact their success rates. They are demanding when it comes t... more ...

Beyond a mutual inclination between two individuals who are not from the same family, friendship is a very strong feeling and, for most of us, as essential as love. "A true friend gives their heart unreservedly, without conditions, and solely because they love. They possess the sincerity, delicacy, and fidelity of the sentiment," wrote Jean-Jacques Rousseau in his "Thoughts of a Right Mind" in 1826. Regardless of your success or social class, a true friend is always there for you. Beyond shared good times, they are expected to protect and care for you in any circumstance. L... more ...

Searching for a new partner is a thrilling adventure experienced by many singles. Every person possesses unique qualities and desires when seeking a life companion. In this article, we explore the question: How many compromises are acceptable during the search for a partner? Are these compromises indispensable for building a successful and happy relationship?  1. The Vital Role of Compromises in Relationships Compromises are an inevitable aspect of any relationship. They necessitate both partners to approach each other with empathy and understanding, considering each other's... more ...

The way people meet each other has significantly changed over time. In the past, one would encounter their future partner at work or in public places like bars, parties, and events. However, since the advent of the internet, there is an extremely practical and successful alternative for finding a partner: online or mobile dating. It is a fast and casual way to make new contacts, especially suitable for shy people. The anonymity it offers makes it attractive to a large number of users. Nowadays, numerous online platforms have specialized in catering to the needs of different age groups, such as... more ...

What could be more enjoyable than having fun under the covers! However, one must be in the right mood for it. Given the daily constraints that assail us, it is not always easy to find the suitable moment to fully enjoy this enchanted interlude. Not to mention that partners may have different biological rhythms. So how do you find the optimal time to indulge in amorous escapades? Is there objectively an ideal moment? A brief analysis in this article!  Sex: a source of well-being at any time! It cannot be emphasized enough that making love contributes significantly to our physical... more ...

The breakup is never easy, especially when the great love of our life is at stake.Perhaps one of the most difficult questions we have to ask ourselves in such moments is when and how to let go of this relationship in order to allow the beginning of our own new life.Because if we cling to something that is clearly over, we get stuck in an endlessly painful and unproductive phase.Of course, it is understandable if we don't want to let go of the love of our life. After all, we may have been waiting for them our whole life and felt complete with them. But whether this is really the case or whe... more ...